Homestay

Interview with a student who used Kudan's homestay program

Why did you decide to stay with a host family?

I wanted to fully immerse myself in the Japanese language, so it was an easy decision to stay with a host family. I wanted to be surrounded by people with whom I could speak not only formal school Japanese but also everyday Japanese. Additionally, I'm a family-oriented person, and without my Japanese family, I would have probably felt very lonely.

Did you have any fears or difficulties? If so, how did you handle them?

I didn’t have any fears or difficulties because I am a very sociable person who adapts quickly to new situations. I am the oldest daughter in my own family and have always taken on a lot of responsibility in family life. My two host siblings quickly became very close to me, and I went through thick and thin with both of them. If there were arguments or disagreements and tears, I was there as the big sister, supporting them both.

Was there something you particularly enjoyed about living with a host family?

For me, spending quality time with family is always important. Doing homework together, cooking dinner, going on trips — I really enjoyed that, and I still do it when I visit them.

Did you share your home country's culture or hobbies? (If you have related photos...)

I didn’t share much because I didn’t feel there was much to share. However, one thing we did was celebrate Christmas together, and I cooked a typical German Christmas meal.

What was the most impressive experience during your homestay?

This is a difficult question. There were so many wonderful moments. But the most memorable and beautiful was when we celebrated my little host sister’s “Shichi-Go-San” (a traditional Japanese celebration for children). Also, the short vacation in Nagano, when we visited my host father's parents, was wonderful.

Do you still keep in touch with your host family?

Yes, I stay in very close contact with them. I try to visit Tokyo once or twice a year and spend at least 2-3 days with the kids and my host mom.

Do you have a message for students thinking about doing a homestay?

If you want social interaction and closeness to everyday life, I highly recommend staying with a host family. However, if you know that small children might annoy you or if you are someone who enjoys spending time alone, then this might not be the best option.

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